50/50 custody

I truly believe in this.
For whatever reasons your marriage doesn't work it is never because of your kids. If he is a good father or she is a good mother the kids should never have to chose.  Sharing your kids is hard, 50 50 custody is a pain in the ass, going back n forth, hearing both sides, dealing with new significant others. But those kids are an equal part of both of you they deserve the equality of both parents and to be loved wholely even tho their parents are apart. Never use kids as weapons or bargaining chips its not fair to them all they want is everyone to get along. They are dealing with heartache and confusion themselves. So even tho its not how you would do it, or your angry, hurt...the truth is you live different lives, you have different opinions,  but hey! guess what!  thats probably why your divorced in the first place. Don't take good parents away from their kids. Its the one thing your marriage produced that makes life worth it!
Try anyway!